What is stress, the causes of stress? Is it inevitable?

Stress affects many Americans; it is not just a 21st century problem but and issue that people all over the world have experienced since the beginning of time. Stress can if continued can have a negative impact on a person’s life. Stress doesn’t always have to be negative. Stress can also lead to positive results pushing the person undergoing stress to the next level in their life. According to the googled definition, stress is the pressure or tension exerted on a material object. A state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or very demanding circumstances

What are the main causes is stress? There are various things in a person’s life that can cause stress. In a person’s personal life such as health, emotional problems, your relationship, major changes in life, stress in the family or conflicts with your beliefs and values. There are also social and job related causes of stress as well such as your surroundings, social situation, or job. A person can also desire help when dealing with stress if they have encountered life threatening or traumatic events like death of a loved one, sexual violation, natural disaster or war. Those particular events can cause something that is called (PTSD) post traumatic stress disorder. Stress is your body’s way of responding to any kind of demand or threat.

Often times stress can come from factors on the inside of you rather than the outside. A person can cause unwanted stress by worrying about things that they have no control over. The fear of the unknown can lead to a person becoming stressed. We often watch the local news and hearing of the recent wars, the results of the presidential election and the state our country is in a result, wildfires, earthquakes, bombings etc. can seen us into a state of fear causing stress because we have no control over the outcomes. We know deep down that there is no way to know when, where or how these disasters will happen but the daily coverage on the news makes us believe that the events are more than likely to happen and happen often. We can also experience fear in our own home such as the fear of loneliness, bills not being paid on time, school, work products and children.

The way we perceive things and our responses to them can determine whether we will let it add stress into our lives. For example, you can get a flat tire and if your respond to it as “oh well, I have tire warranty, I’m covered you are less likely to stress you out. “My tire is busted, what if it happens to my other tires; will they continue to cover it?” As for me, my constant worry is I am taking classes’ full time as well as working full time; will I be able to handle this? Do I have the ability to be successful at both? We tend to think that we are perfect without fault. As stated in the article Causes of stress in webmd “If you expect to do everything right, all the time, you’re destined to feel stressed when things don’t go as expected”. When a person experience change in their life, it can be stressful be it a happy or sad event. What we allow to stress us is based on the person that we are.

What can stress do to your body? The hypothalamus, a tiny control tower in our brain, sends out the order: Bring on stress hormones! These stress hormones are the same ones that trigger your body’s “fight or flight” response. Your heart starts to race, breath quickens, and muscles are ready for action. This response was designed to protect the body in an emergency by preparing you to react quickly. But when a person continues to become stressed, the stress response keeps firing, day after day, and it can put your health at serious risk. Below, is a chart that explains the effects of stress on various parts of the body.

Stress is a natural physical and mental reaction to life experiences. Everyone will experience stress from time to time. In all of a sudden, short-term situations, stress can be beneficial to your health. It can help prepare your body with the ability to handle potentially serious situations. If your stress response doesn’t stop firing, these stress levels stay at a heightened level longer than needed for survival and as a result, it can take a toll on your health. Chronic stress can cause a variety of symptoms and affect your overall quality of life.

Behavioral symptoms that causes stress We already know that stress can have serious affects on the body but many do not realize that when you are stressed, it affects your thoughts and feelings, and your behavior. Being able to recognize when you are stressed, can give you a head start managing it. A few common effects of stress on your mood causes anxiety, restlessness, lack of motivation or focus, feeling of being overwhelmed, irritability or anger, and sadness or depression. Common effects of stress on your behavior are overeating/ lack of eating, angry outbursts, drug or alcohol, tobacco use, social withdrawal or change in lifestyle veering away from the things that normally gives you pleasure.

How to manage stress? Because stress is unavoidable, it can be manageable. There are are several ways that you can manage your stress level is by engaging in exercising. Exercising on a daily basis can help change your mood and can be used as a distraction from the worries in life and allows you to come away from the negative thoughts that adds to your stress level. Connecting with others can be a stress reliever as well. Something as simple as being in the company and talking to another person can send signal to your body and ease stress when you are feeling irritated. Engage your senses of touch, taste, seeing, smell, hearing can calm you. Often times when I am feeling stressed, I listen to gospel music or a sermon while at times taking deep breathes has a tendency to calm me. When I do these things, it switches my focus from the negative to the positive.

Learn how to relax we cannot prevent stress from happening in our life however, we can control our response to it. When we use techniques to relax our body like yoga, meditation, and deep breathing send a signal to our body to relax. Eating right is another way to help us manage stress. The foods that we decide to put into our bodies can help or hurt the way we feel and our ability to handle situations. Lastly, getting plenty of rest also helps. When our bodies are tired, stress can cause us to respond in a way that we normally would not if we had the ability to think rationally. If we are under stress, we either have a hard time falling asleep or have a hard time sleeping the entire night.

When children face stress, unfortunately they do not always have the tools to help them manage the stress as adults do. As adults, it is our job to help a child cope when they are experiencing stress. Before a child is born, it can be affected by stress if the mother is experiencing a period of stress while the child is still in the womb. The brain is the primary stress organ. The mother has cortisol levels in her body that can affect the developing fetus. If the mother is stressed, it can directly affect to the well-being of the unborn child.

Stress levels that are positive and easily tolerated by the body are safe. However, stress that is toxic can increase the risk of premature birth, low birth weight and other complications. Stress can also be linked to I impaired mental, behavioral and motor development in the baby. For children, their bodies and minds are still growing, so coping strategies would be extremely important for them. High levels of stress early on have been connected to impaired behavioral and emotional development as well as numerous health impacts later on in life.

In conclusion, stress is a powerful thing that can help or hurt a person. The way in which we allow it to affect our life is how we respond to the stressful event. Everyone needs to have the ability and the tools needed for them to get through their situation. Given that children are not capable to do the things necessary to manage stress, we must guide them through the process which is similar to the way that adults need to get through situations. Initially, when I saw that a 6-8 pages research paper was the midterm for this class I immediately when through mixed emotions causing stress on me. I did not sleep at all last night worrying if I could get the job done. After going through various emotions, it was up to me to either let it get me down and take a toll on me or take a deep breath and tackle my exam head first.

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Stress Affects on Families and Children

In its toxic form, stress affects behavior and physical health, and we need to translate this knowledge into public policies that can prevent it. The importance of children’s earliest years has long been recognized, but our understanding of the underlying science has taken a significant leap in the past decades. Studies regularly document the effects that a child’s earliest experiences can have in later life and adult health. There is a growing consensus among experts that a key mechanism linking childhood adversity to later health and well-being is the stress caused by early negative experiences. These early negative experiences manifest in neglect, emotional and physical abuse, and excessively harsh parenting.

In this context, “stress” doesn’t refer to a worried or anxious state of mind, but rather to the body’s physical responses to negative circumstances. When a situation is perceived as challenging or threatening, the body responds with a series of chemical reactions that affect heart rate, blood pressure, metabolism and other functions. These temporary adjustments help us adapt and survive, but when they happen too frequently or last too long they can produce lifelong chronic disease. For children, whose bodies and minds are still growing, a well-tuned stress response system is especially important. High levels of early stress have been linked to impaired behavioral and emotional development as well as numerous health consequences later in life, including high blood pressure, cardiovascular disease, obesity and diabetes. Such consequences cost our society in many ways.

Positive stress is a normal part of learning and development. As children learn to cope with frustration, overcome obstacles and confront challenges, they will experience a certain amount of stress. This level of stress is usually safe and manageable, especially if a child has the support of a healthy home environment. It is important to distinguish tolerable stress from toxic stress. Toxic stress is the result of serious events like a death in the family, a high-conflict divorce or a prolonged illness. It is potentially harmful, but sensitive and responsive parenting can protect children from long-term consequences. But in order for these stresses to be managed, parents and caregivers must be aware of the dangers, and must then be equipped with proper supportive response patterns. As educators, working hands on with children and families, it is our collective responsibility to educate on how to manage these inevitable life events one of our highest priorities.

In contrast to tolerable stress, toxic stress refers to persistent, unhealthy amounts of stress caused by chronic stressful conditions without the protective benefits of healthy caregiving. These stresses can eventually cause permanent damage. I truly believe that by coming together has a community and joining forces, the ability to reallocate resources toward the prevention of toxic stress in children and families is endless.

Promoting public health and reducing health disparities require solutions that target children’s earliest years is so critique. It is clearer than ever before that health, achievement and success have their roots in the first months and years of life. Reducing adversity and stress in early childhood should be a key goal of efforts to improve the lives of children. Stress can provoke negative effects in children just as it does with adults. Family stress can be a catalyst for a variety of symptoms in children, according to Novella Ruffin of Virginia State University, including “bed-wetting, upset stomach, irritability, nightmares, lying, withdrawal from activity, change in activity level, poor sleep or eating habits, teeth grinding, or decline in school achievement.” Parents and other caregivers who are alert can take proactive steps to alleviate the harmful effects of stress. This is why being so hands on and present with children is a must, we cannot fulfil our duties as children’s activist if we do not do so.

Stress, according to Ruffin, is “the body’s reaction to a physical or emotional situation that causes imbalance in a person’s life.” Family stresses which can create imbalance and thus have negative effects upon children include a parent’s loss of employment, divorce, fights, physical or emotional abuse, death of loved ones, the arrival of new siblings or environmental changes. Working parents must also be mindful that although their children are not exposed to direct and obvious catalysts, lack of parental interaction and feelings of isolation can also produce stress for children.

Parents and other caregivers should be alert to abnormal changes in a child’s behavior. They may have cause for concern if a child who is normally friendly and outgoing, for example, becomes isolationist or conversely begins lashing out at peers. Caregivers must investigate if they notice that otherwise unremarkable situations and comments trigger emotional outbursts or disproportional retaliation from a child. Children under stress may also hit, kick, bite or tattle on other kids. Additional symptoms can include crying, bed wetting, stuttering, appetite loss or laziness, according to Ruffin.

Parents and caregivers must be careful about the information and conversations shared in the presence of children. It’s true that it can sometimes be helpful to children to witness “real life” and see their parents or other adults working through tough issues, if this interaction is healthy and productive. However, parents and caregivers must remember that children also lack the skills, education and life experience to process some “adult level” information or situations.

As this paper earlier mention, a person who has an impact on the child’s life has the ability to determine how much impact they will have and what kind. Though a parent can be a “caregiver” that provides for the child, financially. There are so many more factors that goes into the actual carrying of the child. Physically and mentally being there for a child is key. Being able to create that connected relationship with the child not only creates a short term advantage for the foundation, but long term as well. The benefit of a sold parent child, teacher child, teacher parent, and so on is amazing.

There are multiple steps that can happen to assist a child during stressful times. First, acknowledge the child’s feelings. Listen to what they have to say and do not minimize or dismiss it. You can also equip your child by helping formulate descriptions of what he or she is feeling. Ruffin suggests, “Teach children names or words for their feelings and appropriate ways to express them.” Parents and caregivers can also create an affirming environment for kids. This can be done by praising and rewarding positive behaviors rather than simply focusing on coercive punishments to manage negative ones. Another step is to aid kids through the use of stories, drawing, play-acting or “pretend” conversations between toys. For example, ask a child to draw a picture of his home and then ask him why there are dark clouds, or why his parents are not home or how come the characters in the picture are all frowning. Try to under the image from the child’s perspective, this will truly help make understanding more effective for both parties.


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Hurricane Katrina to Hurricane Harvey to Covid-19 – Lessons Learned From the Frontline

“Hurricane Katrina was an extremely destructive and deadly tropical cyclone that was the costliest natural disaster and one of the five deadliest hurricanes in the history of the United States It was the eleventh named storm and the fifth hurricane of the 2005 Atlantic hurricane season.” The storm caused severe destruction along the Gulf coast from central Florida to Texas, much of it due to the storm surge and levee failure. Severe property damage occurred in coastal areas, such as Mississippi beachfront towns where boats and casino barges rammed buildings, pushing cars and houses inland; water reached 6–12 miles (10–19 km) from the beach.

“The storm was the third most intense United States landfalling tropical cyclone, behind the 1935 Labor Day hurricane and Hurricane Camille in 1969. Overall, at least 1,245 people died in the hurricane and subsequent floods, making it the deadliest United States hurricane since the 1928 Okeechobee hurricane.” Total property damage was estimated at $108 billion, roughly four times the damage wrought by Hurricane Andrew in 1992 in the United States! Over fifty breaches in New Orleans’s hurricane surge protection were the cause of the majority of the death and destruction during Katrina on August 29, 2005. Eventually 80% of the city and large tracts of neighboring parishes became flooded, and the floodwaters lingered for weeks!!

I was 10 when Hurricane Katrina hit New Orleans, I didn’t realize at the time the impact such an event would have on not on me and my family, but the entire city has a whole. Hurricane Katrine was like something New Orleans had never experienced. Our city was completely turned upside down in just a blink of an eye and it was nothing we could do. To lose everything and be in the position where you honestly have to start over is so overwhelming, the stress alone was unbearable.

I remember everything. The emotional roller coaster we were on from the moment we left New Orleans was endless. My parents had no idea where exactly we were going, but they knew we would drive far enough to be away from the danger. Somehow the destination became Houston, Texas. A drive that normally takes about 8 hours, turned into over 23 hours, almost one whole day! One can imagine the stress and anxiety that alone came with. So many people were trying to get to safety, there was traffic backed up for hourssss; gas stations even began to run out of gasoline, creating other addiction problems for the people who cars were basically on E.

We truly had no idea the damage Katrina would do. My neighborhood was literally completely under water. Mid City (where we lived) had over 10 feet of water, the house was destroyed and everything in it. There was little to nothing able to be saved, everything I knew was no more, everything we had was no more. After such experience, there was so much pain and hurt left. Though I was “just a kid” I was well aware of what was happening and what my family was going through. Stress is such an overpowering emotion, it tends to take over one’s life, and after a while, the person becomes numb. I Thank God everyday for the protection he puts on my family, because even now, almost 13 years later, I can not imagine our outcome without him.

Reference:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/trauma-and-hope/201709/post-hurricane-stress-anxiety-recovery-and-ptsd

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http://www.cdc.gov

Mental Health Among African American Children

Mental disorders among children are described as serious changes in the way children typically learn, behave, or handle their emotions, causing distress and problems getting through the day. (Perou, Blumberg, Pastor, Ghandour, et al., 2013) According to the Center for Disease Control (2016), children may experience mental health issues if they have a parent with poor mental health or live in a neighborhood that lack support. Conditions such as Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), depression, anxiety problems, behavioral or conduct problems such as oppositional defiant disorder or conduct disorder may develop. These adverse effects may stem from sociodemographic factors or environmental influences. The onset of symptoms are often recognized in early childhood. (Bitsko, Holbrook, Robinson, Kaminski, Ghandour, Smith, and Peacock, 2016)

African American children may have additional barriers as it relates to mental health. Generally there is a lack of understanding regarding mental disorders which leads to a lack of care. Parents distrust many health professionals and therefore do not share potential contributing factors or mental health history. Consultation, collaboration, and communication between educators and parents could lead to referrals to diagnosticians or health professionals for proper care.

To better understand the impact of mental disorders, educators can learn more about the signs and symptoms, promote the importance of mental health with families, and understand the impact of treatment and intervention strategies. Training in cultural competence is an added benefit when working with African American children and other minorities.

Resilience

Stress comes in many different forms. Resilience is how one copes with stress. It too can be in various forms. Signs of physical stress may include headaches and other psychosomatic symptoms. An example of resilience could be not taking on so many projects and learning how to emphatically say no when you are already overwhelmed.

Some factors and strategies on building resiliency have been identified by the American Psychological Association (2004). These factors include (a) the capacity for building caring and supportive relationships, (b) the ability to communicate skillfully and solve problems, (c) the capacity to make realistic plans and take steps to carry them out, (d) a positive self-image and confidence in their strengths and abilities, and (e) the ability to manage strong feelings and impulses. Having a supportive network, making positive connections with others, avoiding perception of crises as insurmountable, accepting change as a part of life, and implementing self-care are strategies that contribute to building resiliency.

Educators must be able to recognize signs of stress in students. Teaching coping strategies is a valuable tool in building resiliency. Dismissing behavior as tittle-tattling, unfocused, or temperamental could be a missed opportunity to recognize mental health concerns. Bullying, sleeping in class, and being disruptive are generally behaviors that constitute disciplinary action in schools. However, developing a rapport and effective communication with students and their families may divulge underlying issues.

Combating the beginning signs of mental illness with a combination of coping mechanisms, stress management techniques, and resources encourages cultural competency when collaborating with families to educate and establish relationships. Collaboration and communication minimizes assumptions and stereotyping. The goal is to promote wellness and support families with acknowledgement and respect. Professional school counselors can assist educators and families with workshops, resources, or educational information regarding stress, cultural competency, mental health, and resilience.

Cultural competency checklist

An initial guide to address cultural competency level would be to consider the following questions:

  • Am I being dismissive of what is being said because my experiences were different?
  • Am I using language that is considered as microaggressions or microinsults?
  • In what lens am I viewing the individual’s issues? Could there be some countertransference?
  • Is the individual’s best interest the focus of the treatment?